What are the pros and cons of mail order brides?
December 22nd, 2009
brazenbeauty asked:
Is there really a black and white answer to this topic? Or is it the purest form of relationship, where both partners clearly define what they want from it? Further, do you think people can learn to love someone?
For the men: What are some of your motives for marrying a mail order brides? Is there anything wrong with women in America?
Is there really a black and white answer to this topic? Or is it the purest form of relationship, where both partners clearly define what they want from it? Further, do you think people can learn to love someone?
For the men: What are some of your motives for marrying a mail order brides? Is there anything wrong with women in America?
Female: Would you ever consider a mail order groom?
Hietalahti
Heinola
To answer the last question, yes.
Hirvonen
You can ‘learn’ to love someone who isn’t abusive or disrespectful.
But mail order brides have no way of learning the true nature of their husbands hearts until they are already married.I would not recommend taking the risk.
Jalasjärvi
I personally think the idea is ridiculous. Getting married to someone shouldn’t be like buying a car or a house, it’s not just about some legal deal to me. It’s about me spending the rest of my life with someone who I consider to be my best friend and love, you miss out on that if you “order” a bride.
Can you learn to love someone? Yes. But I don’t think that “learning” to love someone is EVER the same as falling in love with someone.
Just my opinion.
Helmi
I can attest to that. You have to be open and honest to show the true you. if it start with a lie, its not going to work. I guess it depends on the person, how they are in life. If they are raise with good up bringing, you bet the guy will be lucky. However, some are wild and rebellious but I think its up to the guy to tame them for their own liking. But if you got a nice one, you should cherish her cause it is rare to get one.
If they are willing to achieve the best in marriage or partnership, there are plenty of work to begin with. Adjustment is hard if one does not participate.
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