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Why do so many Christian white men have asian mail-order brides?

August 23rd, 2009
Joan asked:


And not just mail-order brides but immigrants in general who barely speak English. I find this stuff is sickening mostly because of how dependent the women has to be.

Jonna

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  1. August 23rd, 2009 at 23:11 | #1

    Hanno

    Maybe it is just the Christian white men you know…

  2. August 24th, 2009 at 16:59 | #2

    Jari

    I think you answered your own question with your last sentence.

  3. August 25th, 2009 at 05:27 | #3

    Järvinen

    I believe the premise of your question is incorrect.

  4. August 28th, 2009 at 15:44 | #4

    Hietalahti

    sickening indeed.

  5. August 29th, 2009 at 10:57 | #5

    Frösén

    Also why do I see so many Christians adopting Chinese babies?

  6. August 31st, 2009 at 14:36 | #6

    Huhtala

    Are you from Alaska?

  7. September 1st, 2009 at 12:15 | #7

    Heinilä

    because they’re too ugly or weird to find a normal american woman who would tolerate their crap.

  8. September 1st, 2009 at 17:42 | #8

    Jarkko

    I don’t have one. Perhaps I’ll look.

  9. September 3rd, 2009 at 04:24 | #9

    Hannele

    It’s cheaper to buy in bulk.

  10. September 3rd, 2009 at 14:45 | #10

    Johanson

    Because they cant seem to get anyone else close by

  11. September 3rd, 2009 at 18:29 | #11

    Henrik

    Where DO you get your statistics from? Did you read it in a mail-order statistics book from asia or something?

    Oh, by the way, if you are not Native American, then you better watch what you say about “immigrants”! You don’t want people to see Hypocrisy in you, do you? What *I* find sickening is the way some people stereo-type others, and show such racism and intolerance!

  12. September 5th, 2009 at 00:40 | #12

    Hautala

    How do you know they are Christians?

    Obviously they can not be.

  13. September 7th, 2009 at 08:42 | #13

    Haapaniemi

    I’ve never heard of this before. Hm, why asian and not any other race? Growing up I’ve known men who liked asian women for their smaller size. Some men like towering over a woman, weird but true.

  14. September 10th, 2009 at 04:21 | #14

    Hakkarainen

    because these women can be molded to fit our needs, they want a better life, we want a better wife

  15. September 11th, 2009 at 21:14 | #15

    Jenna

    Where do I sign up??? How many can I have??? Is there an 800 number???

  16. September 12th, 2009 at 02:49 | #16

    Fredrik

    Christian?

    Show some stats.

  17. September 13th, 2009 at 05:50 | #17

    Hautamäki

    Wow, we’re just importing everything these days I guess.

  18. September 15th, 2009 at 02:25 | #18

    Henriikka

    cuz white christians they are afraid of anyone who understands them because they are damned boring. besides asians want green cards. and asian women are not like those free white women. asian women are raised not haveing a choice they are used to it.

  19. September 18th, 2009 at 02:07 | #19

    Hyssälä

    A friend of mine went for a mail order bride, but so far as I know, she’s still in a crate in Customs.

  20. September 21st, 2009 at 09:49 | #20

    Juha

    yes,it’s sad when any perve gets one…the sad part is those women are abused most of the time…….and it is a blessing if one works out to be genuine on both sides,people need people who ever or where ever they are

  21. September 22nd, 2009 at 02:12 | #21

    Halvari

    They do? That’s news to me.
    I have known a few asian women and they are quite capable of handling themselves after a very short time in America.

  22. September 23rd, 2009 at 13:37 | #22

    Hanna

    The fact that their Christian doesn’t make a difference of why he took advantage of young women with no knowledge of western customs.

  23. September 25th, 2009 at 16:44 | #23

    Jantunen

    Because after years of dating whining, complaining, greedy, spoiled, self centered, superficial, big mouth, American women, they want to marry an Asian woman who knows how to treat a man.

  24. September 28th, 2009 at 07:34 | #24

    Huuskonen

    I’m not EVEN Christian, but I wouldn’t mind a nice young Japanese woman to trade knowledge, carnal and otherwise, with.

  25. September 28th, 2009 at 08:31 | #25

    Heikki

    Not that it’s a crime to have a mail order bride or an immigrant bride . . .

    But, what makes you think that these many or all or some of them are Christian?

    Be Blessed:-)

  26. September 29th, 2009 at 14:43 | #26

    Jesse

    I know a lot of white male christians none of which have a “mail order bride”.

  27. September 29th, 2009 at 19:54 | #27

    Jäntti

    My boyfriend’s military father was divorced. His wife no longer wanted to be married and that was that. He took a whole year to try dating and, finding it too hard, took to the internet. He brought home this young woman from the Phillipines, that same age as his oldest son. All of her sisters have, likewise, been married to American military men. These men send money back to her family.

    These women love military men because they have decent benefits, job security and are often family oriented.

    I find it very distasteful.

  28. October 2nd, 2009 at 04:08 | #28

    Jyrkiäinen

    And the source proving your statement to be true is?

    I am a white Christian Male and my wife is a White Christian Female. I live near a navy base and while there is a wide ethnic mix in marriages in our church.

    To the point that there are more white/black marriages than white/asian.

    So I say bunk to your assertion.

  29. October 5th, 2009 at 11:09 | #29

    Harikkala

    It is so wrong, but rationally, it’s a win win situation, the brides get a to come to America, after so long they can get divorced, (that is, if their deranged husbands haven’t locked them in a closet, to control them better) and they have a green card. So…..Whatever, people are crazy.

  30. October 7th, 2009 at 02:14 | #30

    Järvinen

    I’ve only known of one guy who did this and it was a disaster. I don’t know what he was thinking but since his divorce he has seemed desperate to meet other women (who are English speaking and American that is). So I don’t think it has anything to do with his spiritual beliefs.

  31. October 10th, 2009 at 06:10 | #31

    Saari

    God did it.

  32. October 13th, 2009 at 13:01 | #32

    Jokela

    I gotta wonder, how many “Christian, White, Men” you know.

    I am a Christian, one of Jehovah’s Witnesses.

    I’ve known at least, Hundreds, if not Thousands, of Christian White Males, none of whom had Mail-Order Brides, of Any nationality.

    The closest of known to was my brother, Not a Christian, who married a girl from China, not a MOB, he actually went, met her, and married her. They didn’t stay together, and as it stands she is doing much better than he is.

  33. October 16th, 2009 at 14:30 | #33

    Härkänen

    the same colors as hiraches

  34. October 16th, 2009 at 22:39 | #34

    Jyri

    Because they are generally more submissive.

  35. October 20th, 2009 at 06:43 | #35

    Eemeli

    And yet, I don’t know a single one, I wonder how that happened? I go to one of the largest churches in this country, and don’t know a single white man with a mail-order bride or an immigrant bride.

    You’d think with “so many” that I’d know at least one.

  36. October 22nd, 2009 at 06:44 | #36

    Flores

    I have to agree with you, I know several men who have done this and do not understand myself. I feel it is very wrong and not fair to the women.

  37. October 24th, 2009 at 18:19 | #37

    Joona

    I don’t know why, personally I think they are crazy. I think it is totally wrong to basically “buy” a woman from Asia when there are single Christian women right around them.
    This has happened at my church and it is just not right.
    I have noticed also that unfortunately they have the woman do a lot of the work around the house including mowing lawns, wood, other yard work. Not right at all and not fair to the women.
    P.S. None of the 3 men at my church that have done this are in the military, all 3 are white men, all 3 married women from Asia.

  38. October 25th, 2009 at 05:01 | #38

    Halkoaho

    Yes it happens, I know a few men at my church that have done this. It is a wrong thing to do and it is hard to respect these men that have bought their wives. It doesn’t seem Christlike to me.

  39. October 26th, 2009 at 23:51 | #39

    Hull

    I have 3 white male, Christian friends who are each married to an Asian woman. The women are from Japan, China, and thes, respectively. The phenomena of white Christian males marrying Asian females is largely because of how popular Christianity is becoming in many Asian nations. In South Korea and the Phillipines in particular, American Christian guys can find a plethora of Christian women to meet and marry.

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